Some thoughts around the deadlock

1. Where there is happiness, there is home. The house is not just built of walls with doors and moldings. A beautiful house that is full of quarrels, cursing, derision, sarcasm in and out, is it still a home?

2. Parents' house, forever parents' house. It can never become one's house. One cannot see it as the place to come back to or to stay, whenever he or she wants to. It is just a temporary place. The roof over one's head or the comforts of life, if provided by the parents, then it cannot be called one's own. Everyone has the responsibility to build their own roof. Everyone has a responsibility to build their own happiness.

 3. The most precious things parents can give their children are a happy childhood and an education of kindness.

 4. It's best for everyone to live their own life. Thinking that we can rely on the coverage, protection or the property of the generation before us or the generation after us, or our partner, is creating the burden on others.  Thinking that we need to cover or protect the generation before us or the generation after ourselves, or our partners, is also destroying the ability of others to live, survive and develop on their own. Each individual can support another individual according to his or her own strength, but cannot live on their behalf and live for their own sake. If each of us did not live a life leaning on each other's shoulders, should every individual on this earth already have a fuller and happier life?